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It seems that you have several choices here. This article will get you started: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/gardening-by-zone/zone-5/ground-covers-in-zone-5.htm

consider various varieties of pole beans. Vigorous growth will blook the view all summer, provide interesting flowering and colorful, edible beans, and after the frosts, there will still be vines and leaves. Consider when you are outside enjoying the space and seeking privacy, as this is probably in the growing season.
I have grown Kentucky Pole Beans, purple pole beans, yard long asien beans, and broad beans, and all will vigourously fill every space on your fence.

Tom Casten

It will be important for me to know your climate zone. This will help me to recommend plants that will be suitable for your area.

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This article will give you some ideas:
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Looking up "hummingbird flowers" and "moth flowers" might also give you some ideas. As for plants that specifically deter bees, there are only a few possibilities:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/insects/deterring-bees-wasps-with-plants.htm

Plow-down rye is an annual grass so as long as it doesn't bloom and go to seed, it should not keep going. Usually it is turned under about 3 weeks before planting to get the composting process well on its way.

Unfortunately, there is nothing that is deer proof. They will eat, almost, anything. Now I can help you with what will do fine in containers in your area. This article contains plants that will do well in your area in full sun, and almost any plant will do well in container, as long as you pay close attention to it, and its needs: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/gardening-by-zone/zone-6/zone-6-flowers.htm