My hosts seem to have lots of "babies" & they no longer flower, look poorly, look crowded. I think they are a variety that doesn't get very big. Should I transplant the babies & give them more room?
Hostas don't usually need to be separated for the sake of their health, but they do take very well to division. This article should tell you everything you need to know about it:
http://dodge.uwex.edu/2011/05/dividing-and-transplanting-hostas/
What could be the problem? I have 4 in a group. The others are OK. We replanted the smaller one hoping it would grow to its larger size, but it did not. I don't want it to die. We have them a long time.
Water is the obvious thing to consider. Several scenarios are possible. If the fall is very dry, plants can experience damage to the root ball. The extremities dry out and die off. The damage from the drought period doesn't show until the next year when the plant doesn't have as large a root system to build on. The reverse can also occur... a wet cold fall can result in rotting of parts of the root system. Again, in the spring the plant starts off from a smaller base. A cold, wet spring can also result in plants sitting in too much moisture for too long and rotting in the ground - this will also result in smaller plants.
If they are planted near a tree, the roots are often a reason for moisture being drawn from the plant.
I have two hostas, one is a medium shade of green, the other is called "watermelon" with dark green on the outside of the leaves and a little lighter on the inside. The "watermelon" hosta is starting to look like the ends of the leaves are burned. Am I giving them too much sunlight (about 6 hours of morning light)? Could this be leaf rot? Any solutions?
Hostas are variable in how much sun they can take. Sun + heat + dry soil is very problematic. Some will exhibit leaf scorch with 6 hours of sun. "Morning sun", to me, means up to 11am and that's it. There is one other possibility, hosta virus X or HVX. I've included a link that gives description and pictures of this disease. I don't believe you are describing HVX but check it out. http://www.missouribotanicalgarden.org/gardens-gardening/your-garden/help-for-the-home-gardener/advice-tips-resources/pests-and-problems/diseases/viruses/hosta-virus-x.aspx
I have a huge and magnificent hosta which does not become slug damaged. Every year it looks very well and comes backer larger. Should I divide it? I don't want to risk losing its splendour!
This article will give you the information that you need: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/foliage/hosta/dividing-hosta-plants.htm
Plants are over 40 years old, have never been separated, and now are "disappearing" - dying off. Should I separate them now or when they appear in the spring, or will they come up again at all?
Hosta are said to never need division. However, the soil beneath them can get depleted of nutrients. 2 inches of compost under the leaves annually should keep them going. If the plants have been stressed this year by abnormal weather or too much sun, they may go dormant in early fall to protect themselves. But curiosity is a good thing. I would dig one up and examine the roots; is there a mole/vole eating roots, is the soil staying soggy too long and roots are rotting. See if there is a fixable problem. I am pretty confident that your hosta will emerge next spring.
There are holes in the leaves of my hosta plants and Montana plant
from past experience. I think you might have a problem with slugs or snails, hostas are "fine dining" for slugs especially if you have varieties with variegated coloring. Apparently the lighter colors are quite tender and easier for the pests to munch on. There are commercial products (slug pellets)to spread around and under the plants, crushed eggshells. You need quite a few, and diatomaceous earth. Have used all with varying degrees of success.
I have growing in my backyard what looks like a hosta. But I have never seen it flower. Is it a different plant?
Yes, it certainly is a hosta. It is a little small; maybe it will bloom next year. Try adding 2 inches of compost as a top-dressing next spring.