I have been using "No Damp" for seedling flower and veggie plants for years. Now, I can't find this product in stores. What do I use instead?
Damping off is caused by a fungus, so any fungicide should work. Just apply the fungicide to the soil and it will kill the fungus in the soil that causes damping off. This article will also help you:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/seeds/what-is-damping-off.htm
How can I tell whether these seedlings are my vegetable plant or a weed? I don't know if my seeds didn't sprout and the plant that I've been watering is just a weed.
Identification of the seedling will depend on the type of vegetable you planted. If you let us know what vegetables you planted, we can let you know what their seedlings look like.
How soon should you plant flower seeds before transplanting outdoors?
Most are sown indoors anywhere from 4-6 weeks prior to the last frost date in your area.
I just planted my seedlings and was about to cover them with sphagnum moss to prevent damping off, a natural alternative to using a fungicide spray. Then I realized I was supposed to use 'milled' sphagnum moss, not the regular sphagnum moss. Do I have to wait to start this until I can find the milled sphagnum, or can I use the regular sphagnum moss that I have?
The regular type will also work. If you haven't already read it, this article may also help: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/seeds/what-is-damping-off.htm
I over watered my seedlings and now some have white spider web like stuff on top. Some have dark spots on side of plantable pot and some have thick white fungus with light brown over it on top of the soil. Can I fix this or should I start over?
The suggestions in this article may help: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/seeds/preventing-white-fluffy-fungus-on-seed-starting-soil.htm
It's very cloudy and I don't want my flowers to die. :(
Just because it is cloudy, does not mean that your plants are not getting light. Outdoor light, even on a cloudy day, is far brighter than any lamp you could use. Grow lights are a good substitute when the temperatures outside will kill your plants or you don't have a window that is gets enough sunlight through it, but nothing beats sunlight in terms of providing the light plants need.
The plants I started from seeds are about 5 inches high and now getting yellow spots on them. What would make them do this?
This is typically caused by a fungus. If you treat the seedlings with a fungicide, it should clear up. I personally like neem oil as a fungicide as it is organic.