I read where they bloom in spring but it’s almost October and ours have what looks like blossom buds coming out.
The Royal Empress blooms on old wood (previous year's growth), so you are seeing buds forming for next spring.
If yours didn't bloom last spring, it's possible someone pruned it in late winter, cutting off the spring buds.
Be sure not to do any pruning till after it blooms next spring.
http://www.missouribotanicalgarden.org/PlantFinder/PlantFinderDetails.aspx?kempercode=a888
Its more than 10 feet.
I found a publication that says they don't start blooming till they are 5 to 7 years old. So you are almost there! The flowers are formed in the fall, so do any major pruning in the spring after flowering.
https://www.uaex.edu/yard-garden/in-the-garden/reference-desk/trees/empress-tree.aspx
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/trees/royal-empress/pruning-empress-trees.htm
my Royal Poinciana is looking bear. I have noticed some in the neighborhood looking scant as well. Robert from Melbourne Beach
If others in the area are looking as your are, I would say that it was an environmental factor. Unfortunately, that would take more than a lifetime to change. Typically, they sustain much of their damage when the temperatures are a little cooler than usual, as they are not tolerant to the cold.
The only thing that you can do is to help provide it with the proper care, until the conditions are more favorable.
Here is an article that will help you with their care:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/trees/flame-tree/flamboyant-flame-tree-info.htm
and blooms every year and it grows leaves every year but the leaves are not very big I live in Central Florida What can I do to make my royal empress tree grow tall as it supposed to be...I did cut it down the second year and this is the tallest it’s ever gotten.
There are several cultivars that are hard to tell apart. They vary in height from 15 feet to about 60 feet. From the sound of it, the tree may only reach 15 feet in height. It may be one of the shorter cultivars.
Feeding with an all purpose 10-10-10 every 3 or 4 months or so can keep it looking its best.
Here is an article that will give you more information on the tree:
I just want to know if he will thrive back.
The only thing that you can do is give it a little time. It doesn't look bad at all, so recovery will be a simple process for the tree. They are quite hardy.
Here is an article that will help you to care for the tree:
It invites many kinds of leaf eaters and looking horrible.
Has it bloomed before or is this its first time? Environmental happenings can cause a tree to bloom out of sync, such as a late freeze, early fall, or if the tree is stressed from drought, for example, causing it to go dormant. When conditions normalize in fall, it may come out of dormancy and bloom. When this happens, it doesn't usually expend all its blooms and should bloom again in spring.
Recent hurricane took most of leaves
Your tree should be planted in fall or spring, so if you're still experiencing mild fall weather, you may want to do it now. It is plenty big enough for transplanting. You'll need to consider that the root system of these trees can become highly destructive, so make sure you plant it in an area where it can spread and grow without interfering with wires or structures.
Here's an article:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/trees/royal-empress/worlds-fastest-growing-shade-tree.htm