What does a hibiscus look like when it goes into dormancy
It looks like most trees during dormancy. Leafless, but with smooth bark. I would recommend pulling up a photo using those search terms in your preferred search engine.
Here are some articles that will help you:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/hibiscus
We live in South Alabama and the nightime temperature fell to upper 20's. We forgot to bring potted hibiscus inside and the leaves are withering. They are inside the house now. Should we prune them back and try to see if they leaf back out or wait until spring. We will probably keep them inside since typical Winter temps are 30's and 40's at night.
Tropical hibiscus can't tolerate freezing temperatures but it's possible the temperature was below freezing only a short time. Cut off any visibly damaged stems and hope for the best. Here is more help for freeze-damaged plants:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/environmental/how-to-treat-frozen-plants.htm
They normally respond but at different levels of cold since there are various types of hibiscuses. A quick dip below 32°F followed by above freezing temps may not result in much damage provided the soil was kept moist. Of all the varieties, rosa-sinensis (aka, troppical hibiscus) is the most cold sensitive. Bring the plants indoors once overnight temperatures begin to drop below 50°F. Bring it outside in spring 2022 after your average date of last frost, which is around the 2nd/3rd week of April for Thomasville. At times, the damage may not be obvious immediately thereafter. Place the pot away from hot/cold air vents and near a south facing glass window or door but not touching the glass.
You can leave the plastic on till there is root development, i.e., new leaves developing within 8 weeks. You can also lightly pull on the stems (do not pull them out). If they resist, they have rooted.
I have some sprouts coming out of the base of my hybiscus plant. I thought they were weeds but were difficult to pull and felt attached to the roots. Could they be baby plants? I have had the plant for about 5 years. Thank You!
It doesn't look like hibiscus seedlings. They would have small, round leaves. I'd say some seeds blew in there while it was outside and are growing. Think about what else you grow outside that might look like those. It also could be weed seeds.
development of galls in the leaves
Miticides are available, but they also kill the beneficial predatory mites. Pruning the shrub will help. Also remove the worst leaves with galls.
Here is more information on their control:
Is this a Harlequin Beetle on my Hibiscus?
It looks like a cotton harlequin bug or hibiscus harlequin bug but there are a lot of varieties and they all look different!
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/insects/get-rid-of-harlequin-bugs.htm
I live in south Florida. Temperature is ideal. Some times I have 3-4 flowers and some times days go by without anything. Sometimes I have a bush full of buds and the next day they lay empty on ground under the bush.
Typically, many types of Hibiscus blooms will only last a day! This will be normal. It is likely that, either, they bloom and are missed, or there is not adequate light for the blooms to finish, and even too much nitrogen can cause blooms to fall off.
This article will help to offer more information on the subject: