What's wrong with them? I have three O'henry peach trees. They seem to be healthy except one has almost no peaches. The other two have many peaches that are not developing and some that are developing. Out of the good ones about half have the sap oozing from the seam. The trees are about five years old. Last year all three trees produced massive amounts of excellent fruit.
It sounds like you have peach borers. This article will help:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/fruits/peach/peach-tree-borer.htm
I just purchased two peach trees, they have small peaches on them already, should I pick off the peaches or leave them?
I would take them off this first year. This will help the trees focus more on growing roots and becoming established rather than on growing fruit. It will make a healthier tree in the long run.
My peach trees are loaded with peaches, but I am afraid as the peaches become fuller, the limbs might not hold the weight. Am I supposed to thin the peaches in clusters?
Timely thinning of small to medium sized peaches significantly increases fruit size and helps maintain tree structure. However, if not thinned properly, peach trees may go biennial in their bearing habit. In addition, trees that are not thinned or are thinned too late (60 days after bloom) may fail to produce flower buds or fruiting wood the following year. In some cases, these trees will automatically drop a number of seemingly healthy fruits when overcrowded. Sometimes though it is necessary to do it on your own. Hand pick fruits as needed for continual growth of those remaining.
Here is an article that you may find helpful: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/fruits/peach/peach-tree-care.htm
What is the sap like substance coming out of my peach trees and some of the peaches, and is this a problem?
It sounds like you have a peach borer problem. This article will help with that: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/fruits/peach/peach-tree-borer.htm
Do you know what may cause our peaches to keep falling off prematurely? The tree is at least 6 years old, and the leaves seem healthy.
This article should help: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/fruits/peach/peach-tree-fruit-drop.htm
How do I keep birds and squirrels from eating my peaches and apples?
These articles will help:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/animals/get-rid-squirrels.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/fruits/fegen/protect-fruit-tree-birds.htm
My peach tree bark is peeling. It is on the north side. We get hard winters. What can I do from now on to prevent getting more damage? It did not get many leaves on it.
Splitting or peeling bark commonly occurs in freezing weather. If it is not weeping or splitting further, then you should just leave it alone to heal on its own. If the area of peeling bark is widening, you can try protective paper (sold at nurseries) to help hold it together while it heals. Do not cover the wound with tar or any other permanent substance as this can trap disease in the wound. In the future, you could try wrapping your trees during winter to provide some insulation.