Is there something natural to spray on them for bugs?
These articles will help you:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/hpgen/acclimate-plants-indoors-winter.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/hpgen/bring-plants-in-without-bugs.htm
I have a new deck, about 4 months now, when should I paint, I am seeing woodcutter bees every day?
Bees are least active in the evening, this may be a good time to paint.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/insects/carpenter-bee-control.htm
I have gnats in my house plants. It's almost an infestation now. Ive tried multiple remedies but they come right back. Can you give me some advice that will really work? Thanks!
This article will help you.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/insects/fungus-gnats.htm
Does pine draw termites
Pine Mulch does not attract termites.
Here is a link with more information.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/mulch/termites-in-mulch.htm
how to get rid of them in a home? (bed bugs)
It was recommended to plant squash later in the summer. I live in N. Arizona and can plant in mid June. I had the worst squash beetle infestation last summer. Killed everything. Neem oil didn't work. Should I plant later in summer?
Yes, it is a good idea to plant later in the summer (as late as possible for your region) to avoid the worst of the squash bug damage. They feed mostly during the first half of the summer, so late season crops will not be damaged as much:
http://www.extension.umn.edu/garden/insects/find/squash-bugs/
https://cals.arizona.edu/yavapai/anr/hort/byg/archive/squashbugs2011.html
I have tiny black insects on hibiscus buds.
These are most likely black aphids, a common pest on hibiscus plants. Please see these articles for control options:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/insects/homemade-aphid-control.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/hibiscus/hibiscus-sticky-leaves.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/hibiscus/pests-on-hibiscus-plants.htm