I have 2 and one is doing great but the other isn't. I fertilized it and dead headed it and it looks like it's dying. Please advise
If one is doing well and the other isn't, it's probably not due to anything you're doing wrong. If you purchased the plant from a nursery, you might consider taking it back and asking them to replace it.
Here's an article about their best growing conditions: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/heliotrope/growing-heliotrope-plants.htm
Unless the plant is suffering from an insect invasion, the best suggestion I have is to pinch it back, give it a little food and water and hope for the best.
I wanted to see if I can get help with identifying a flowering plant that has appeared in my garden. If has small elongated gray green leaves and small white five petaled flowers. It's about 8 inches tall and a foot across. It is beautiful and has prospered throughout the heat of summer here in North Central Texas. I live in Glen Rose, Texas, about 45 miles southwest of Fort Worth. My soil is rocky, with limestone-derived weathered clay, and weathered bedrock. I enriched the bed in which this plant is found with compost, garden soil, and decomposed granite.
This looks like Heliotropium tenellum.
This extension service has a description on the plant that is toxic to humans:
Is there any diffrence to tending one that is similar of a tree? Every place i have looked into has only showed informations about the seeds you plant yourself, and that it only lasts one year. But i imagine since its like a tree, it will bloom again next year, and the year after that? I live in norway so it can get more chilly than in the states, but i recon if i take it in during winter, and keep it warm and watered it should endure fine? I also hope that you guys could tell if this tree will keep on growing as years pass, like a normal tree? Sorry im not too eduicated on flora yet. Thanks for your time!
It is beautiful! I've never seen one trained as a standard (like a tree) before. It is typically grown as an annual but you can overwinter it indoors to keep it going. It won't get much taller. They get shrubby in their native Peru but in cooler zones it stays much smaller. Here is more on their care:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/heliotrope/growing-heliotrope-plants.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/heliotrope/indoor-heliotrope.htm
https://www.missouribotanicalgarden.org/PlantFinder/PlantFinderDetails.aspx?taxonid=277986
I haven't uploaded images because I don't know how to do that so I guess you can't help me.
Unfortunately without photos it will be very hard to say what is happening. It does sound like transplant shock. These articles will help:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/heliotrope/growing-heliotrope-plants.htm