What is the bug that looks like a thin black worm about one half inch long and what to do to kill them?
Treat your plant with Neem Oil.
This article has more information.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/pesticides/neem-oil-uses.htm
I purchased this plant on a whim because it's gorgeous, but no one gave me a description. What kind of plant is this, I want to make sure to keep it healthy.
It looks like a dieffenbachia
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/dumb-cane/growing-dumbcane-dieffenbachia.htm
While it might be a form of dieffenbachia, I believe it is a Aglaonema or chinese evergreen. This plant will do well in varying amounts of light. Because it is variegated, bright diffused light would be best, however in lower light situations you may see new grown with more green and less sliver of the foliage.
Can the leaves/sap cause numbness on my fingers?
While the plant does, in fact, get its name from the sap containing oxalate crystals that can cause intense numbness and irritation if ingested, I don't think this should be an issue by simply touching it. That said, overly sensitive individuals could exhibit irritation so it's probably best to wear gloves when handling the plant. If you've already come into contact with its sap, wash your hands thoroughly and call a doctor if it worsens.
My plant is growing tall and lacks leaves on the lower stem area. The leaves are also looking kind of shriveled up a little bit.
You can try to make sure the plant is receiving enough sunlight. The lower leaves are often shaded by the plant and don't receive enough light. They drop off and will not grow back.
If you plant is too tall, this could be a good time to start new plants with cuttings.
This article will help you.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/dumb-cane/propagating-dieffenbachia.htm
How big do they get?
Most dieffenbachias will grow from 3 to 6 feet tall and 1 to 3 feet wide.
My leaves are browning around the edges. Is this due to too much light ( sun), or watering? Suggestions?
These articles will help you identify the problem:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/environmental/what-causes-brown-edges-on-leaves-of-plant.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/dumb-cane/growing-dumbcane-dieffenbachia.htm
Overwatering is very common in houseplants and less common in plants outdoors. If overwatering is a problem, your Dieffenbachia will show some of the symptoms in this article:
Too much light can cause browning or whitening from sunburn on this plant species, but this is usually all over the leaf or scattered randomly across the leaf, not just on the edges.
My Uncle gave me a dieffenbachia a few years a ago and it generally does well. He passed away this year. We have moved and are renovating a house. It has been outside most of the summer. I lost a few of the leaves due to do much sun. This I know. I think it got to cold. It was under cover but now all of the leaves have fallen off. Is there hope? Can it live with no leaves?? Is there anything I can do to save it???
Dieffenbachia can easily be damaged by low temperatures so that is most likely the cause. Move the plant indoors and put it in a place where it will get enough light, but not very bright light:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/dumb-cane/growing-dumbcane-dieffenbachia.htm
The plant might grow more leaves by itself, but a better way to encourage it to grow more leaves is to cut the stem down to about 4 inches tall. HThis will encorage it to begin growing again.