silver lace vine

Question

how do you get rid of it or kill it???

Answer 1

Heavy and regular pruning can help keep this summer blooming vine in control.
If you need to remove it, you can cut the plant down to the soil level and paint the cut open wounds with a herbicide such as round up.
You may need to repeat this a few time.

https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/vines/silver-lace-vine/growing-silver-lace-vine.htm