I get tons of buds and then it will bloom just a few flowers.
Rose Of Sharon can get stressed from environmental issues.
Here is a couple of links that should help you.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/pruning-rose-of-sharon.htm
My rose of Sharon trees were fine last year and this year they didn't get any leaves or buds or anything.
If you bend the branches of your shrub do they break and snap or bend?
If they break off, they are likely dead.
You also can scratch the bark, if you see green underneath, there is likely still life in the plant.
With the long harsh winter that nearly the entire the United States suffered this past winter, and your Michigan location, it would not be an unexpected loss of a plant.
You can prune back the plant and see if you get any growth from the shrub next spring.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
This year my rose of sharon, I have four, didn't bloom like they did last year and the year before that. One of the rose, Lucy, did the worst. Lucy, the name/type of bush, bloomed early this year and then it begins to lose leaves like it's going into dormant stage for winter. Leaves turned yellow and hardly bloomed, maybe 5 blooms on the entire tree. Lavender Chiffon and one of the Blue Satin didn't even bloom, just made leaves. I recorded all the fertilizing and watering on all my plants. Everything in my yard bloomed except my rose of sharons. I live in zone 7.
You may have over fertilized. To much Nitrogen in the soil will cause lots of lush green leaves but no flowering.
You could do a soil test to take the guess work out.
Adding Phosphorous with a fertilizer like Bone Meal will boost flowering.
Here is a link to refresh you on care requirements.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/garden-how-to/soil-fertilizers/bone-meal-fertilizer.htm
What part of the plant is the seed on the rose of Sharon?
After the flowers fade and if they are pollinated they will produce seed pods.
You can pick the pods when they are light brown. Each seed pod will contain 3 to 5 seeds in each lobe of the seed pod.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
My Rose of Sharon is close to the back of our house in a corner where there is little sun, and the ground stays very wet no matter how dry everything else is. The trunk near the ground is soft and tears away easily, and half the tree didn't leaf or bloom. The rest bloomed but for the past two months it has been very wilty. It's a pretty large tree Is this most likely from it being to wet? Thank you.
Yes, your plant is likely suffering from root rot.
Rose Of Sharon prefer a sunny location with well draining soil.
Perhaps you could move the plant to a new location that would provide these growing conditions.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
My rose of Sharon bushes get hundreds of buds but most don't flower - why?
There can be a few reasons including environmental, to much or to little water.
Fertilizer issues also can cause this, again to much or to little.
Also Rose Of Sharon can be infected with a fungus call Botrytis and Thrips insects or even a combination of these 2.
A fungicide applied prior to buds forming can help.
Neem Oil is a good treatment since it works as both an insecticide and fungicide. It's safe for people, pets and beneficial bugs.
Here are some links for you.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/pests/pesticides/neem-oil-uses.htm
I want to know about purchasing SHRUBS or mostly ROSE OF SHARON. Can I still plant this even though it's fall? I don't want it to die. I live in New Jersey.
Yes, you can plant it in fall. Here is more information on its care: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/shrubs/rose-of-sharon/rose-of-sharon-bush.htm