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Unfortunately, the cause of this isn't known. All research points to this being safe. If you are still concerned, then you may throw them out. This will not hurt you, though.

I have always left a few pods for longer than normal for seed production. Right before they start trying to split, pluck them and let the seeds dry in the pod. Here is an article that will help: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/vegetables/okra/how-to-save-okra-seeds.htm

These are annuals and will have to be replanted every season. This article will help: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/vegetables/okra/planting-okra.htm

Okra do not like to be fed very often. As native plants of Africa, they prefer poor soil, and little nutrients. They also like to be a little dry in between waterings.

I noticed that there have been some leaves cut off. This can affect the flowering as well. Let the plant grow naturally for the best results. It still looks young. I would give it time. The first flowers won't open sometimes and this is ok.

Here is an article for care of okra: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/vegetables/okra/planting-okra.htm

This article will help you.

https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/edible/vegetables/okra/planting-okra.htm

This is likely a watering issue, wither too much or too little.

Make sure soil is moist but not soggy, and not to dry.

https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/environmental/overwatering-container-plants.htm