My patches that I planted in full sun areas were great for quite a while. They now have grown to about 5 cm with lots of flowers, but tend to fall over and look a bit 'how ya going.' Should I trim them back by just snipping off the lot at about 2 cm, or what should I do?
Yes, trimming back should help. Also, make sure your plants aren't getting too little water or staying wet too long (if soil is poorly drained). If they fall over when they haven't been watered or rained on in a while, then perk up after watering, this is likely the problem. Also please see these articles:
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/lobelia/cutting-back-lobelia.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/plant-problems/environmental/established-plants-leggy.htm
Do they need to be thinned out to one single plant or can you put a few together?
This may depend on the variety that you are growing and the type of garden that you are planting in.
You may want a more mass planting or individual plant. It's fine to make decisions taking the information and adapting it to your own garden!
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/lobelia/cutting-back-lobelia.htm
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/lobelia/lobelia.htm
When can I buy trailing lobelia now that frost has gone? What month is it in season?
Shop at your local garden centers and greenhouses. Trailing Lobelia is grown as an annual in most zones, though it can be a tender perennial in zones 9-10.
If you can't locate plants, try direct sowing seeds right into your garden beds.
https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/lobelia/lobelia.htm
Do we need to leave the plant in the ground over the winter, or trim to ground level or dig up and keep indoors until Spring?
This depends on if you have an annual or perennial lobelia. There are many species, and each have different care requirement. They won't tolerate freezing temperatures well, so if it gets cold in your area you will have to dig them up. Here is a collection of articles that will help you care for lobelia: https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/ornamental/flowers/lobelia/
If sown early, can lobelia survive the following winter? It gets pretty cold here in Manchester (UK) maybe minus 7 or 8 at the the worst.
Thanks I will defiantly will look into that! :)
I had a chuckle at you describing -8C as pretty cold. I guess it is all what one is used to! Anyway, with a name like Cambridge, you'd think this would tolerate UK temps but it is listed by Thompson-Morgan and other seed sites as an annual. Seed is tiny but you can try to collect it in fall. The downside is that hybrids do not come true from seed and slowly revert back to the parent plant over years of saving seeds. I find this fascinating to watch. Lobelia is part of the large Campanula family which includes creeping bellflowers. There are perennial groundcover Campanulas that will tolerate UK winter. One is Campanula portenshlagiana.
Did you know that elk like to eat lobelia? I caught two elk in my flower bed eating the spent lobelia blossoms. At first I thought they were dear and sicced my son armed with tomahawks and bow and arrow on them because I thought they were deer eating my Tiger lilies. Lo and behold, the lobelias were the big attraction.
Lobelia actually make the list for plant that Elk don't like!
If hungry they will eat anything.
http://www.roaringforklifestyle.com/2015/06/26/gardening-to-resist-deer-and-elk/
I brought a 6 pack of lobelia and planted them around my garden. It just happened that I planted 3 in pots with compost and 3 in the ground which is quite a dry soil. I have been watering them all regularly and the same amounts. But those in the pots look perky and alive and the ones in the garden are droopy. At first I thought they had dropped because I accidentally watered them down but haven’t done that since and they haven’t picked up. Any advice would be good!
Increase the soil organic matter content (compost) and mulch the soil surface, so that the soil can retain moisture.
Or water the plant in the soil more frequently than the one in the pot.
Or pot the plant that is not doing well in the bare soil.