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It sounds like the tree doesn't get full sun. Anything less than 8 hours of direct sunlight, or equivalent, will cause a spindly tree. Otherwise, test the soil for nutrient deficiencies, though these will appear as lesions or spots on the leaves rather than stem elongation.
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